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How to get your money back from a 'friend'

Have you ever noticed that when you lend someone something, they immediately disappear from your life?  Like *voom!* gone.  Vanished!  Usually you can kiss your friend and the things that they borrowed goodbye for good.  But what if you make the mistake of lending money to a friend? If you've been friends with someone for many years, it's natural to want to give them a leg-up if you see them struggling.  However, I would only advise lending money if you don't expect to be paid back.  Think small amounts.  Also, ask yourself whether it's worth holding on to a 'friendship' where one person is always giving and the other is taking.  I'm not just talking about money.  Do you have a friend that is always in a 'crisis' and needs to be 'rescued'? So what if it's too late?  You've lent a huge amount of money to someone, and they've done the runner.  Months have past, and it becomes apparent that this person has absolutely no intention